Zoe is two weeks old today!! Contrary to all these pictures, she doesn't always sleep. She also likes to poop and stare out at us, sort of disappointed looking, feed with her turtle mouth and growl like a bear cub.We really love her, and now I am beginning to feel that painful abundant love that a parent can have for their children...Like a heavy woolen heart saturated in water. It is enormous and complicated- to want only goodness for your baby and sacrifice everything and worry endlessly and delight in them and love them even when all they do is cry and feed and poop and on the other side just wish you could get away for a couple days or make them sleep 48 hours straight or want that life with just your husband and be selfish and immature again! And to know that it is only going to get harder! Oh, life!!
I have been thinking about that these last two weeks, about real life. David and I were talking and I said something about how it is hard now but it will get better and he said, "It is all hard". Which is true. Real life is hard. Being married, having children, following Jesus, working on dreams, standing up against injustices, serving and not seeing results...But when you aren't knee deep in it, when you aren't living the real-tough life, you aren't really living, by definition at all. You're just going through the motions, bored, unchallenged and unfulfilled, wanting the world to entertain you and carry you through without pain or change. Fear and self doubt and selfishness can be such blocks to really living. But, if you risk and sacrifice and scream and flail and dive into the deep end, then I really do believe once in a while you get a glimpse of goodness. Of joy and love and hope.
...And that has to be worth it. At least, I'm trying to remember that it is, and that even a tiny glimpse of God's presence is strengthening and gives sustaining power.
I want to say YES to real life. Even as it scares me and challenges me and pushes me to the brink, exposes my limitations and failures and needs...As it humbles me and causes me to cry out for Jesus...Maybe that is the point!
So...Two weeks into a deeper place. Cards and balloons don't speak the truth of this journey. It isn't pink with flowers and happy giraffes, but it is happy...And that I can say that considering my hormonal and physical state is truly a miracle!!
Happy 2 weeks, Zoe!! We have no idea how you will continue to enlarge and change our lives, but we know you will. We love you.
6 comments:
Beautiful...all of it. Thinking of you guys.
wow - you have me in tears. Beautifully spoken. Beautiful baby. Beautiful parents. Becoming a mother is a wonderful, fulfilling, difficult, maturing, death to selfishness, amazing, unbelievable thing. I see you are already discovering it. Thanks for giving us peaks at the first couple weeks. simply beautiful.
Been praying for you a lot these last few weeks, months etc. You all look so lovely, thank-you for once again being so real, raw and honest, God so delights in you because of that :) Blessings! She looks so radiant, beautiful and peace filled!
I have to repeat what everyone else has said - Beautiful. That's what came to mind when reading your post. I am always encouraged and challenged by the way you honestly and openly share your heart. Thanks. May this Mother's Day be truly special for you!
God has given Zoe a huge blessing by placing her the arms of you and David.
We love three so much.
oops that last one was Aimee!!
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